The Road to Character
by David Brooks
“Should I work to cultivate my resume virtues or my eulogy
virtues”, writes NY Times author David Brooks in The Road to Character. I could argue that this is the book of the
year, but it was written in 2015. Nonetheless, I think it is a book every person
should read. Not only does it provide
rich historical perspectives on people worth emulating, but it also highlights
the virtues every person should seek to embody through the way one lives their
life. Brooks chooses outside people,
some well-known and some with lesser “brand name” recognition, to illustrate his
points. In each story, he provides
context of how the person developed the character trait worth cultivating. The
readers learns that these traits are grown out of habit and hard work in an
effort to create
an inner character that becomes a guiding force. There are eight chapters following the
biographies of people who overcame weaknesses in earlier life to become the
esteemed person worthy of following at the end of their life. The people include: Frances Perkins, Dwight D. Eisenhower, Dorothy Day, George
Marshall, A. Philip Randolph, Bayard Rustin, George Eliot, George Lewes,
Augustine, Samuel Johnson, Michel de Montaigne, Johnny Unitas and Joe
Namath. He ends his book with a Humility
Code, a proposition of 15 statements on how we should live – here are my
favorites:
·
Live a life of purpose,
righteousness and virtue
·
Remember we are flawed, so
stop the selfishness and overconfidence
·
We do sin, but recognize it,
feel ashamed of it, and then rectify it
·
Have an accurate assessment
of your own nature and place in the cosmos
·
Pride blinds us to the
reality of our blinded nature
·
No struggle is more real than
inner campaign against our own deficiencies
·
Character is a set of
dispositions, desires, and habits that are slowly engraved during the struggle
against our own weakness
·
Character endures over the
long term
·
No persona can achieve
self-mastery on his or her own
·
We are ultimately saved by
grace
·
Defeating weakness often
means quieting the self
·
Wisdom starts with modesty
·
A good life is organized
around a vocation
·
The best leader attempts to
lead along the grain of human nature, not against it
·
The person who successfully
struggles against weakness and sin may or may not become rich and famous, but
that person will become mature
Such great lessons. A book so worth reading, if nothing else for
role models who we can try and learn from. Maybe next year’s speech at the end
of the year will come.