I had the chance to read NYU’s own Dr. Jess Shatkin’s book Born to Be Wild. Jess is the director of the CAMS program at
NYU, a program that helps students understand ways to enhance resiliency in
this world full of crazy situations…. This
book is especially helpful to those who are parenting or working with
teens. The book explores why teenagers
are risk takers with behaviors that challenge authority figures and sometimes their
own safety (such as use of illicit drugs, premarital sex, driving a motorcycle
without a helmet, etc.). Jess is a
remarkably competent and likeable person.
The book shares personal stories of how he engages with his clients (at
NYU’s Child Study Center) and his own children as they grew up. His easy-to-learn
suggestions for being the best parent possible uses a ‘connect-the-dots’ approach. He uses theoretical frameworks from noted
researchers as a basis for his work and presents the material in an easy-to-digest
manner. He also shows how previously
popular methods of “scaring kids straight” on topics of drugs and other
behaviors that can harm them hasn’t worked, and he delves into the neuroscience
to discuss how the brain works. A
relatively quick read – two nights and I was done. Do yourself a favor and give this book to
someone who has kids or those who can be a positive influence on kids. Thanks, Jess!
Friday, December 22, 2017
Friday, December 8, 2017
Mutant Message Down Under
Mutant Message Down Under
by Marlo Morgan
During my two-month illness, my oldest sister, Nancy, sent
me Mutant Message Down Under by Marlo
Morgan. Morgan, a fifty-year-old
divorced mother with two adult children, is asked to work on a health care
project in Australia. Morgan was a
health care professional who believed in wellness related strategies to cure
patients. Morgan arrives in Australia
and begins her project. One day, she attends
an event where she has her future told by a fortune teller. She is told that
there is a journey in her future where she will meet her soul mate, which does
indeed come true. Morgan later goes on a
tour of the outback and is asked to immediately join the Aboriginal tribe she had
visited on a 90-day walk through the desert.
She feels compelled to do it. The
rest of the story captures Morgan’s journey of learning about respect of our
world/nature, how to control her fear and pain (walking across the desert with
no shoes), and how to connect to others through telepathy. Each chapter teaches a new lesson. The book is controversial, as many who read
the book think that Morgan made up the entire trip. Hummm…either way, still a series of valuable lessons
for a person to learn. Timely read for
me.
Friday, November 17, 2017
Children of the Matrix
Children of the Matrix
by David Icke
What a way to finish with the RA Favorite book list for 2017-18. A total of over 950 books read in the past
decade. The variety of books always
astonishes me. I will say, I wasn’t able
to connect with this last book, Children
of the Matrix by David Icke. It is
hard to read a book that philosophically I just don’t get…. Icke is well known for serving as a
‘conspiracy theorist’ and his proclamations are pretty far out there. This book was published in 2000 and focuses
on the Illuminati and how they have infiltrated all powerful leaders in our
society. He proclaims that the governmental
and financial leaders of the world all come from one of seven bloodlines, all
connected through an early ancestry that involves mating of a reptilian and man. If that isn’t so hard to believe, Icke
destroys the idea of religion and quotes documents and materials from thousands
of years ago to prove his points. He
takes on every institution and shows how society needs ‘hope’ in that which
doesn’t exist. He spends a great deal of
time attempting to sell an older book he wrote, referring back to it at least
125 times in this 480-page book. He
believes in UFOs and provides significant data to prove his case. Through and through, he attacks anything that
is ‘structured’ in our world. He
believes that all institutions are connected to Satan and evil ways (such as
being pedophiles, blood drinkers, killers of animals)…and the list goes
on. I thought it was so outrageous that
I went online and watched him being interviewed by BBC reporters in 2016. He is for real and believes 100% in what he
preaches. I was so underwhelmed and not
at all in sync with his atheist and over-the-top claims on the “who’s who” of
leaders from George Washington to Bill Clinton – all “evil doers” – that I had
enough. While I read the book, I was
pretty disgusted with his claims, especially saying that one of my distant
cousins (former comedienne Bob Hope) used to participate in demonic rituals, and
I lost any and all faith that this guy has any sense at all. I’m surprised that this book was a
favorite. Hard to find anything to
connect with in this book. Nothing
redeeming for me in this one. I guess
I’m stuck with thinking about this one for a LONG time…hurry and hire some new
RAs for the spring, I need a new book to read!
Sunday, November 12, 2017
The Gastronomical Me
The Gastronomical Me
by M. F. K. Fisher
M.F. K. Fisher’s book The
Gastronomical Me presents a really creative and interesting way to write an
autobiography of your early life by. Fisher, who grew up in California, chronicles
a 29-year period of her life from her childhood days through her 40’s. Each chapter tells a brief history of what
she was doing (at home with family, going to college, traveling around the
world, being married to a young struggling professor, and finally being present
as her second husband dies from a debilitating disease), but, just as
importantly, she connects each chapter to food! From something she learned to
cook, to an exquisite meal she had during the memorable experience she wrote
about in the chapter, there’s always a connection. Each experience in her life was connected to
a new cuisine, a delicious dessert, or even home grown vegetables that simmered
on the stove. Your taste buds will flare up as she describes in depth the food
choice of that day/experience. Fisher is
a woman ahead of her time. The first
chapter begins in 1912, a time when woman had few opportunities to ‘follow
their dreams’, but Fisher did just that.
She left home for college, ventured with her newlywed husband to Europe
for his first job, then traveled the world after their marriage disintegrated
and she fell in love with another man. A
really unique way to illustrate the coming of age of a fiercely independent
woman while receiving new recipes and food choices to expand the palate. A very accessible read that I thoroughly
enjoyed. Fisher’s life is one worth
learning about.
Saturday, November 11, 2017
Good Muslim, Bad Muslim
Good Muslim, Bad Muslim
by Mahmood Mamdani
Finished reading Good
Muslim, Bad Muslim by Mahmood Mamdani.
I expected a very different book based on the title, thinking it was about how
one can be perceived as a ‘good Muslim’ or ‘bad Muslim’. Instead, the book
illustrated how the US has helped create a positive view of Muslims when they acquiesce
to the country’s demands, and a negative view when they don’t adhere to the
demands of US leadership. The book provides historical context on how
powerful/rich countries have greatly influenced how another country is run, and not
always in a positive manner. The author’s
historical backdrop, which includes periods from the French Revolution to the
Cold War, describes how countries have not been very forthright with their
people in communicating their real intentions when they attempt to form a ‘collaboration’
with Muslims. Of course, the book does also tie in the perception of Muslims
being “bad” when countries manipulate them for their own benefit (in this case,
oil or other goods/services or use of the collective people for political purposes
– Iran vs. Iraq, etc.) How could Osama
bin Laden be a strong ally to the US and then be seen as terrorist enemy #1 in
the world? The ever-changing US foreign
policy is analyzed and shown to be a major cause in the shift from once
friendly “partners” to terrorists who allegedly bombed the Twin Towers in
NYC. Mamdani presents data and examples
of how he believes
the US actually fostered the terror that hit our country and the world by
deciding to harness and even cultivate terrorists
during the latter half of the Cold War as it sought to roll back the Soviet
Union's global influence. He later goes on to suggest that no Chinese wall
divides 'our' terrorism from 'their' terrorism. Each tends to feed the other. Mamdani makes the distinction between "political
Islam" and "Islamic fundamentalism". The reader is left to
seriously question the succession of ‘fatal errors’ our leadership made in
making deals with individuals/groups that the government later tried to destroy. Most of what is presented in the book (Iran
Contra hearings, 9/11, Central American unrest, military coups in South
America) were all things I remembered growing up, and I found it helpful to
gain another perspective. Historians and
those looking to serve in governmental leadership positions will enjoy this
particular point of view, whether to agree with or emphatically debate.
Friday, November 10, 2017
The Leopard
The Leopard
by Giuseppe Tomasi Di Lampedusa
I really enjoyed reading The
Leopard by Giuseppe Tomasi Di Lampedusa as I have been in the mode of
‘heritage’ learning as of late. Having
grown up around many Italians, and later living in Little Italy in NYC,
learning about the Sicilian society was a treat. The story begins in the mid-nineteenth
century where the protagonist, Don Fabrizio
Corbera, Prince of Salina, and his people are in the midst of a civil war.
The novel follows a 25-year period during which Fabrizio grows into an old man,
facing the change of leadership within the country and the eventual merging of
the separate “city-states” into one country with a changing political
system. Fabrizio’s family (nephews and
children) play large parts as secondary story lines, showing the process of
falling in love, family commitment to one another, and the challenge to stay
true to the elders of the ‘tribe’.
Fabrizio’s own aging process as a family patriarch and the ability to
stand firm against other governmental leaders to keep his community intact are
traits to be admired and followed. One
gets a real sense of the old European traditions, politics, and family
values. I can see why this was such a
huge success when it was published. A
strong book worth reading!
Wednesday, November 8, 2017
In the Footsteps of the Prophet
In the Footsteps of the Prophet
by Tariq Ramadan
I always enjoy learning about topics that I don’t know as
much as I should, so reading In the Footsteps
of the Prophet by Tariq Ramadan was exceedingly helpful. As NYU has experienced an increase in its
Muslim student population, I have had the opportunity to engage with more RAs
who are members of the Muslim faith tradition.
This book allowed me to learn the life story of the religious leader,
the prophet Muhammad. Muhammad received
the last revealed book, the Quran, which shares the position of the faith
leader. He is believed to be the chosen
one to reveal the message from God.
Muhammad reveals the path of spirituality by “transcending the respect
and love for God in the worship and love they must offer to ask of the One who
begets not and is not begotten”. The
book presents Muhammad’s life from beginning to end and shares the five pillars
of Islam: Faith; Prayer; Charity; Fasting; and pilgrimage to Mecca. A must-read for anyone curious about the
origins and faith tradition of the Muslim religion. The book helped me tremendously in
understanding the historical context and many of the rituals I witness our
students practicing. We have a vibrant
community on our campus, and, as Western society is confused by the teachings
of the religion, I say this is a ‘go-to’ teaching guide to refer to in your
introduction to the faith.
Monday, November 6, 2017
Punished – Policing the Lives of Black and Latino Boys
Punished
by Victor M. Rios
A similar read to Gang
Member for a Day, the book Punished –
Policing the Lives of Black and Latino Boys studies Black and Latino boys
in the Oakland, California area. It
is written by another sociologist, Victor Rios, who himself comes from the life
of the boys he studies, having committed crimes and being a ‘self-described’
delinquent as a teen. He was a member of
a gang, witnessed murders, and was involved in illegal activities. In the book, Dr. Rios follows 40 young men
from his home area. His main focus is to
demonstrate that “punitive social-control” does not work. Having more police, who physically intimidate
the youth, only forces them to resist more.
Additionally, having teachers who aren't supportive and don’t create
environments where kids are given multiple chances to prove themselves only pushes
the students further away.
Three-strikes-and-you’re-out laws don’t work and will lead to more funds
spent on jails. Rios begins his book
with definitions that explain ‘hypercriminalization’ (illustrating trends in
how youth are punished today), the context of the area (the demographics and
breakdown of diversity in the Bay area), and showing how few community programs
exist as funding has been reduced. After
the inputs, Rios shows the outputs (consequences), which include more jails,
more arrests, and the low graduation rates of youth in the urban center. He provides a rich, qualitative voice from the
youth who participated in his study. He
puts a face on the kids who aren’t given a name but feel only the wrath of the
local police. His data is substantial and
once again proves the point that most government-led efforts, such as
‘attempting to help impoverished youth’ needs to be more than ‘carrying the
heavy stick’ – more effort needs to be made to show the youth that getting out
is possible. Congratulations to Dr. Rios
for escaping his gang and for his work in telling the stories of those who
can’t escape.
Sunday, November 5, 2017
Alamut
Alamut
by Judith Tarr
This was a hard one to wrap my head around, partially
because it’s hard to listen to a book over a long period of time and especially
so when you are also reading books at the same time. Three of my last six books
on the RA Favorite list are connected to the Muslim religion. Enter the world of Alamut by Judith Tarr. (Note: I only listened to book one, so I can’t
tell you how it all ends.) Set in the 11th century, a war between
the young King (representing the Islamic state) versus the stronghold, Saladin.
It is a war representing two religions, and stuck in the middle is Prince Aidan.
The Prince is taken with the beautiful Morgiana,
who is some sort of spirit (not human nor mortal). She lures him into her bed, though he is
already betrothed to another who is with child.
The battle between religions, temptation of beauty, and the inner
struggle of doing the right thing all make for a compelling story. In the end, the beautiful Morgiana shows up, unexpectedly
demanding to keep Aidan for her own. I
guess I should read part two…but part one didn’t lure me in enough. Aidan, the enemies in battle, the various
wives and lovers made for some confusing storylines…. I’ll take a pass.
Saturday, November 4, 2017
The Great Unknown – Seven Journeys to the Frontiers of Science
The Great Unknown
by Marcus du Sautoy
I remain convinced that the diversity of interests and
topical areas that RAs engage with at NYU is second to none. There are some subjects that are
beyond my full understanding – this book is in that category. In The Great Unknown – Seven Journeys to the Frontiers
of Science, the author, Marcus du Sautoy, seeks to explore the seven
‘edges’ of knowledge in the areas of science that are unknown, and provides
current and past lessons learned. Sautoy
provides historical research as he posits each of the seven ‘edges’: Chaos;
matter; Quantum physics; the universe; time; consciousness; and infinity. He notes early in the book that he is an
atheist, though he does come to realize that IF God is like “this”, then it is
plausible that he could be persuaded there is a God. From Big Bang theory to the realization that
the world isn’t flat; from math equations that help science be better
understood to which number will my die land on when I roll it next…. This is a book for those who sit around
contemplating how the world began, how it sustains itself, and what the future
has in store. Black holes, planets
colliding, what neural transmitters help best with an activity – Sautoy is
brilliant and asks questions that are great for any non-scientist stuck in an
elevator…. This book is out of my own
sphere of interest, but I would hand it off to math and science focused readers. It is recently published (2017), so the information
is pertinent to today’s greatest thinkers.
For me, a pass; for the science enthusiast, pick it up now!
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